TODAY IS A NEW BEGINNING

I know somedays it feels like we don't want to get out of bed. But just think what we might miss if we decide to cover our heads and not see what God has in store for us. Just when it feels like things can't get better, the hand of God reaches out to us in a most unexpected way. He touches our hearts through others around us. He sends His love by way of gestures, words or the touch of someone near us. Not always the way we invision it, but God's timing is perfect.

Thursday, November 25, 2010

My Dad..... Missing Him

This has been a very hard week for me to write.  I've been going through alot of stuff and I wasn't sure how it would all come out.  I was really afraid of things getting to emotional and me just spewing stuff everywhere.

I guess I will start my dad... it was his birthday this week... I was afraid that if I let any feelings out they would just rage out of control.  I wish that my dad was here this year so that I could wish him a happy birthday, to share with him that he has a new great grandchild named Tristen and a new son-in-law named Travis.  I would also want him to know that Audrey is going to give him another great grandchild.  I wish I could share about my aching heart, about the confusion that comes with the Orchard Way House being completed. I really believed that we would all be back together as a family as the house neared completion. So much sadness for me, also I guess rejection.  Dad I miss you and I need you in my life.  I want to be able to talk to you about all of the confusion that swarms around me when it comes to my relationship with Bob.  I'm trying very hard to honor God in this relationship    I just feel like the devil jumps in and makes a mess of things.

I'm struggling.... not knowing which was to turn.  I want to make wise and loving choices.  GOD help me.

Soon the anniversary of my dad's death will come upon me.  I'm not ready for that at all.  I'm praying God will lead me in the right direction, cause I feel very lost and alone in this. 

I think, yet I know that God and His love and His wisdom will see me through this.  He will love me, love me enough, love me more than enough.  help me Jesus, because I am afraid.

Thursday, November 18, 2010

Growing up and moving on.....

It's very hard watching our kids make mistakes.  I'm tempted to jump in and fix it.  I've found that when I have done that I've robbed them of the experience of making their own choices and living their own lives.  I really have not helped at all.  It's painful to not be able to save them from being hurt or making choices that I feel will hurt them later on.  I guess my role is to love them and support them.  To let go enough for them to stand on their own two feet and walk towards their future.

Monday, November 15, 2010

Happy Birthday Dad!

I want to celebrate my dads life... tomorrow is his birthday.  I miss him very much and I wish that he was here so that I could tell him that I love him and that I'm glad he is my dad.  Time is something that we have no control over.  I have learned that each day is special and should be cherished.  Somethings we don't get the chance to do over. I'm going to focus on the positive memories that I have of my dad.  I going to think about the things that make me smile. Happy Birthday dad.... I love you!

Sunday, November 14, 2010

My wish......

uuhhhhhh..... that's suppose to be a heavy sigh.  To want my family to be whole again.  Whole does not necessarily mean (whole = together living under one roof, not it).  Maybe whole is the wrong word.  Perhaps healed, unified, and there for each other, no matter where we are.  We have changed in a lot of ways over the past several years.  Some have moved out into the world on their own, exploring life, some in college, some embarking upon relationships and  all moving forward in their own way.  Some are growing up, working, planning their futures, going to school and pressing on forward making their mark on the world. Others in the family are working towards and coming closer to the end of a chapter in their lives, finishing high school, what an awesome time.  The rest are working hard at school, exploring friendships, learning about love, having fun learning new things each day and practicing growing up. When I step back and look at the big picture, we are a family of many personalities, thoughts and emotions. I'm praying that God will put His loving hands on us all and provide all that is necessary for us to be unified and healed.  To be able to have everyone together and for it to be a time of laughter, love and the chance to make new memories.  That's my wish for today....

Thursday, November 11, 2010

Today is a new day!

Thank God that each day is a new beginning, a fresh start.  Yesterday is just that.... it's yesterday.  There is nothing we can do about what is in the past.  But we do have the ability to make a difference in the future. 

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Feeling alone.

What happens when we feel alone?  When we reach out and open up to someone to only have them turn around and walk away.  To be let down by someone we love and trust.  To feel abandoned and heartbroken.  For me it brings back some very sad and overwhelming memories.  I thought it would be different now, that someone was there and was going to be beside me.  I realize that I wanted something so much that I was willing to sacrifice some very essential and important things that belong in a healthy relationship.  I was also willing to sacrifice what I know is right and go along with something I know is wrong.  In these very sad and dark moments I felt something, I felt someone.... I have a Heavenly Father that I can turn to, that I can relax in his safe arms and feel a love that is unending and unwavering.  This is a feeling and experience that comes only through a relationship with Jesus.  Today, right now, in this moment, I know that I am loved and accepted and that I will never be alone, no matter what happens.

Saturday, November 6, 2010

Wiser Tomorrow

He that never changes his opinions, never corrects his mistakes, will never be wiser on the morrow than he is today. --Tryon Edwards

My prayer is that I will be wiser tomorrow than I am today.  That I will grow and learn and be able to admit when I am wrong.  I realize that it is not a weakness to say I'm sorry, I was wrong.  I think it is essential to relationships in my life that I am willing to change my opinion, or at least be open to the opinions of others.  Perhaps I need to work on putting aside what I want and put someone Else's needs first.  In all honesty I think that this is something that I wish someone would also do for me.  Perhaps that is the key, relationships need for people on both sides to be willing to compromise, to put the other person first, to be willing to put aside what we want to help the other person know how important they are. I'm praying that God will help me make wise choices and help me work on being the woman He created me to be.